If you are working on returning home, and you have decided that the time is going to be difficult, then it will be. There are many ways to avoid becoming too negative in your new life. Here are some steps to stay positive, move forward, and avoid becoming a soldier stuck in time.
Circular Mindset Paths are Dangerous
Any time you find yourself thinking in a way that is mostly circular, that is, only one frame of thought over and over again, you are becoming stuck. Do not let any one idea become your focus. If you are finding you are experiencing the same thought or belief over and over again, the best thing to do is to find a new experience. Go to the library, and get a new book, tape or a magazine, and try to evict that thought from your mind for one day. It will help you find a new frame of mind, and move you forward.
Negative thoughts are not the way
Positivity can be very alluring when it produces positive results. You will have more trouble getting a positive thought from a series of negative mind thoughts. It is hard to become positive, especially if you have been negative for some time, but imagine your perfect day ahead, and move forward with your new positive edge.
Imagine your perfect new world and strive for it
Just as you began your initiation to become a soldier, and found success at it, you will find a new life that brings your goals and dreams forward! You can become the best person for you and your family, and find a way to still help those that you love and all of your dreams as well. It is more than important that your dreams become your focus.